Do girls like guys to confess their feelings over the internet, text message or face-to face?
So far info i've gathered indicated that girls prefer face-to-face.
One said depending on situation, if the guy she doesn't likes, then better over internet, internet rejection easier, if guy she likes then face-to-face more romantic.
Can girls really handle face-to-face??
text message seems like the lesser evil, but still girls say not good. Hmm, questions to ponder, must continue to gather info.
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Prince Charming: You don't know where Shrek is?
Pinocchio: On the contrary,
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Yeah I is the be agree.
If I don't like the guy then I think I'd rather reject him through MSN/ ICQ (In the past la, nobody uses ICQ anymore)
Text message as the lesser evil? If she doesn't like you, it has about the same impact as MSN.
But if she likes you, and you know it (1 in a million for you... haha, kidding), then go for face to face! Just make sure it's not somewhere too... public. Don't go over the top with flowers and stuff. YET.
When you get her, you can buy her balloon, give her umbrella, throw her rubbish, help her do homework, buy her tissue paper and give her an alarm clock. Yes I know this is totally random. Haha. I think I'm very funny.
TGCM
go straight to her face, if both of you are ready to start a relationship, with much of commitment towards each other.
otherwise, what do you expect the girl to react when you tell her that you like her? just smile? or stunt?
that's why i think through sms has its advantage for both party. Less pressure for the guys(sometimes we really don't know how to compose our speech nicely in a way we get the clearest picture), and Less pressure for the girls too( for them to consider and think of how to respond to it).
So, i go for sms, haha, so to say, if i just wana tell her how i feel. Face to face, can la. but it takes much more of your courage and coolness to really handle stuff. In the end we don't want to screw anything right?
\shalom.
face to face. text messaging is kinda wimpy.
hehe, i tried internet...before, and well look where i am today, though i really don't recommend internet..
well internet i tried 2wice..
1st time with thegirlchurchmate, well that didn't go well...hahaha
2nd time with susubear....well 2nd's a charm?
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here's some suggestion for d alarm clock part http://throughweb.net/?p=134
What info u want to gather? Different ppl, different expectations. Some ppl, anything goes...Some ppl, die die must be face-to-face.
Text messages waste money. Internet free. If want to text, might as well not bother...waste money, low chance. If not bothered about money, invest. Take the girl out and do the usual stuff. Regardless of how stereotypical that is, if the bloke can keep the girl entertained, things may work out delightfully wonderful. So come up with a good investment plan and the returns should be, hopefully, good. Make sure the returns are worth it, though.
Good thing about face-to-face is if the girl reject, the bloke can look so terribly distraught that she would feel guilty. Or he could well be truly distraught.
first rule TO engagement (no pun intended xD) --> avoid asking THE question thru the internet.Why? 'cos its free and we dun wanna show how kiam siap we are to the gal eventhough we are REALLY that kiam siap..LoL(alrite,alrite, that isn't the main factor, its one of the many factors) actually, it should be avoided 'cos u can't see the lady's reaction/facial expression at the moment u pop the question(she could be shocked, disgusted, over the rainbow etc etc so its better if u could see those reaction and tackle it at first hand if its a negative expression so that it won't cause any uneasiness between u two later) and also its so darn unromantic to say it over the 'net.If u have fear of gettin' rejected, do not ask in the first place, that shows u ain't ready yet.Ask only when u are darn sure both of y'all have mutual feelings for each other i.e there's a comfortable, secured and stable feeling when in each other's company(that also serves as an indication that both of u are ready for commitment in a r/ship).i don't really know how to explain that, its an instinctive thing, i think hahah.
Oh btw, no offence to the the sms and internet messaging camps...but i those 2 options are for kids ..used only in the courting process i.e gettin' to know each other better if u can't see that possible-significant-other of yours that often xD
Therefore, one vote for FACE-TO-FACE from JU5T|N !
Justin has the highest success rate so far...ask, sure get. worthy info.
hahahahahaha, very good comments, except kronk la, simply comment hahaha.
Justin you sure ah? your previous experience told you that? You did it face to face?????
the rest of you, funny man, everyone got different stand, that's good... i can write up a thesis now
first, make sure you know wut are you doing.. are you really ready to confess your feelings? consequences will always come after action..
and when you're ready, I dunno bout you, but I think a face-to-face confession shows more sincerity than sms or via internet (no offence to those who prefer that way, just an opinion).. well it will be scary.. yes, it will.. so prepare yourself before hand lar.. well even after preparing, you may still butterflies flying in your stomach - it's normal. but at least preparing yourself will give you a rough idea on wut you're gonna say.. (it may still not guarantee you a smooth-sailing conversation, but at least it will help a lil)
so yes, I'm supportive of a potentially scary face-to-face approach.. hehe.
partly also because by confessing face-to-face, you're also showing (in a way) that you're willing to go through the trouble to express your feelings - it's an inconvenient way.. scary in fact, but you're braving yourself to face the consequences of expressing your feelings..
an answer may not come instantly though.. better if it's not instant also.. shows that the other party is seriously thinking through it..
anyway, PRAY! - always important.. especially before deciding whether to express your feelings or not.. ask God for wisdom..
take care!
JTan
darn streamyx was down for the last 2 days, prevented me from replying u ppl asap..
daniel, my success rate is not the highest la, even if it is i think its as high as my failure rate ..LoL
lordson, yes, previous experience told me so when i was young, naive and stoopid years back hahah. it was a big mistake that led to a bigger mistake cos we were not prepared at all.so popping 'the' question over msn is a big no-no, really. it suxx big-time..hahaha.Although, i didn't do it face-to-face previously but i'll definitely do it the next time around, that's if i've met the right one la, which means not anytime soon hahah
well i personally feel that if u have the guts to go up to a girl and tell her face to face then kudos to you... maybe she is actually worthy of our time.
cos if u are going to go up to the girl u've gotta think it through 1st..no spur of the moment thing is good cos you'll just end up seeming like a bumbling fool
and personal touch is always preferred in these situations ...anyway do you really want your wife to say that you guys got together after u sms'ed her?... like super immature
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