Well, the simple truth is, you can't be liked by everyone. Even in Everybody Loves Raymond, in season 2, Ray can't expect to be liked by everyone, someone has to dislike him. It's only human to be disliked.
But then again, some people get through life easier, they simply just are accepted by everyone. These people has the most problems.
First, they see everyone as someone who likes them (Generally true, since i did say they were liked by everyone)
Second, when people who are not blessed with this gift tells these people that some of the people who like them really are jerks, they tend to be labeled as pessimistic, bias, prejudice etc. etc.
The beauty of it all of being disliked is the fact that it prepares you for the real world. I personally am not liked by everyone, well, all my first impression usually elicit response of hate. No kidding.
But the thing is, you ge tot see people for who they are and that prepares you tod eal with them.
Plus, it desensitizes you of the feeling of being rejected.
Those people who are liked by everyone, when someone rejects them some time in their life, they might not be as prepared.
Then again, it's subject to own perspective of how we view this world.
Yeap, not being liked all the time is actually a good thing, not saying it to feel good but really, jerks can be avoided. Even more so if they are typical Christian hypocrites who claims to be oh-so-holy and then act like jerks in front of certain people. revenge is not mine but God. I hope these people won't freak out when God deals with them.
Friday, March 02, 2007
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3 comments:
haha...first thing i tot of was GAARA! i guess that's d other extreme. =P glad you're not hated to that level? :)
gaara now loveable by every one what.. so gaya hahahaha
so u have hope too! hahaha...be encouraged! :P if he can, u also can lar. *grin*
on d other hand, please God not men God can grant u favour in others' hearts. just be urself coz no matter what there will be some who like u n some who don't. cherish those who do. (u can gimme a treat for starters...hehe) i want tandoori chicken ya! =P
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